10 Ways Guys Screw up a Date with a Girl
Our friends over at Powder Room Talk outline 10 ways guys screw up their chances at a second date. I think I’ve had to deal with every one of these! Check out the original article here.
1. Brag about your finances or your shiny toys
Seriously? Message to this type of men: Not all women are gold diggers! I wouldn’t be surprised if you sucked your own cock!
2. Drag out the “ex” talk for an entire course meal
This is a date not a therapy session. Let go much? Save the drama for your mama!
3. Don’t ever talk about your ex or other women as the “chick that went psycho on you”
FYI, we don’t go psycho over night. Not even on our worst PMS do we go psycho. When you’ve driven us to the point we wanna jab our stilettos on your jugular is because you did something bad, very bad!
4. Save your bad relationship stories for another day
We don’t wanna hear about the ex that got the boob job from you and then left you with a broken heart and a $5k loan. Or the woman that cheated on you, dumped you, beat you, or any woman that saw you had no balls and had a field day with you. These stories don’t say much about you on a first date.
5. Ask about our favorite sexual position
It’s inappropriate on the first date unless we’re an escort and you’re paying us for sex.
6. Trying to get us tipsy
Some of us ladies know our limits, when you try to convince us to drink more so we can loosen up we begin to wonder if you’re that scumbag that takes advantage of drunk women.
7. Text or be on your phone while we’re together
Don’t look at the cell every time it vibrates (unless you’re profession requires you to be on call 24-7) Guys, we didn’t go through all the trouble of dressing up and doing our hair and makeup to stand there in front of you and only get half of the attention we deserve. It’s rude and we’re left wondering if you’re texting your wife or god forbid planning out a booty call for that night!
8. Undress other women with your eyes
Don’t get us wrong, we’re not jealous but we’d like your attention and your eyes on us. Yes, we understand that when an Angelina Jolie enters a room all the penises in the room try to grow legs and walk right over to her. We get the magnetism of a babe cause even us ladies look. But don’t do an exorcist head turn every time a pair of boobs walks past you or stare so hard that you’re having sex with your eyes, it’s not gentleman-like.
9. Don’t tell us what YOU think we wanna hear
In other words, don’t tell us how YOU’RE not a player. Although not every woman majored in psychology we’re smart enough to know when a man is trying to tell us what he thinks we wanna hear. You may fool a few with your salesman pitch, but most of us know actions speak louder than words!
10. Try to kiss us when it’s obvious we don’t wanna kiss you
Be polite and just give us a hug. You don’t need a PhD in body language to read the signs we ladies put out there. When we’re interested we’re open to your flirtatious comments, we laugh at your jokes, and we’ll touch your arms or shoulders at one point. Trust me, we make it obvious. When bumping into you makes us cringe and say, “Oh, I’m sorry” trust me, we want no physical contact with you! You’re not blind, you can read the signs we put out there.
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Hi Ladies,
I appreciate that you're sharing this post with your readers but can you please link it to Powder Room Talk?
Thanks!